What We Ask For and What We Get

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October 25 (November 7)

IThes. 2:1-8; Lk. 11:9-13

The Lord’s prayer [Lk. 11:2-4] The Lord is motivating us to pray by His promise to hear us, giving an example of a father heeding to the needs of his children. But He also gives us a hint right there, why our prayers and petitions sometimes do not get fulfilled. Natural father will never give his son a stone instead of bread, or a serpent instead of fish; much less so our Heavenly Father.

What we ask for, however, is very much like a serpent or a stone. It seems to us like bread and fish, but the Father in Heavens knows for sure that for us it will be nothing but stone and serpent — and declines our petition.

Look at this case: parents are fervently praying for their son, that God gives him the best in his life, expressing in the meantime what they think will be the best — that is, long years, good health, much happiness. The Lord heeds to their prayer and. indeed, gives to their son the best — only not in the eyes of the parents, but as it really is: He sends the young man a lethal disease, and he dies. Those who do not see beyond the earthly life would view this as spiteful cruelty or cold indifference to human life at best; while the believers in the eternal life, for which this life is only a preface, would have no doubt about the disease and death in this case: they have been sent by the Lord in response to the prayer, since it was better for the young man to depart this life than to stay on earth.

Then wouldn't it make sense — someone might suggest — to drop our prayers altogether? No, we definitely have to pray, though our prayers for certain things in a sense should always be conditional: "...If in Thine eyes, О Lord, this is helpful for salvation". St. Isaac of Syria even recommends to shorten any prayer like this: "Thou knowest, О Lord, what is good for me; so do unto me according to Thy will".

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